10. October
October has been a curious month — one that’s felt both slow and fast at the same time. There’s been a lot of quiet moments and simple joys mixed with the underlying current of time ticking faster than I expected.
One thing I’ve loved this month is the beauty of remote work. I’ve been working 100% remotely, and I’m honestly thriving. I never thought I’d find so much joy in working from home, but here I am — able to watch Gilmore Girls while I work. I’ve watched Gilmore Girls a million times. I don’t necessarily need to watch it but I have it playing in the background, and I know the dialogue as well as I know the choreography from “We’re All In This Together” from High School Musical, and believe me when I say, I know that dance extremely well. The flexibility to listen to music or podcasts to keep me motivated has been such a blessing. There’s a certain freedom in being able to make your work environment exactly what you want it to be. And let’s be real, watching Lorelai and Rory navigate Stars Hollow while I’m knocking out my to-do list has been oddly comforting.
A special mention goes to Dancing with the Stars. I’m watching the American version; it’s really the only one that I’ve followed consistently. It’s my weekly treat. The glitz, the glam, the dancing — what’s not to love? I’m obsessed with the cast this year, everyone is amazing. It’s these small things that help make a busy month feel more balanced.
However, October has also come with its lessons. I’ve had to remind myself that just because I’m not in a office environment doesn’t mean I don’t deserve to take a break. I tend to get so caught up in my work that I forget to step away from the screen. It’s easy to get lost in the hustle, but my body and mind need a rest. Even a 10-15 minute walk around the block can do wonders — if I make the effort to do it. It’s a reminder that, as much as I can be a boss of my own schedule, I’m still human, and I need to give myself grace to pause. Also, I recently got an eye test because I was due for a check up and I found out that my eye pressure is a little high, so it’s important for me to give myself a break from looking at my laptop. They say that going outside can help slow down the progression of myopia, so that’s what I’ve been doing. And if you have myopia, I see you, and I’m wearing my glasses while typing this so just know I’m seeing you clearly.
As we inch closer to the end of the year, I’m hoping to embrace these small lessons and pleasures, savouring what makes life feel more full and meaningful. October was a month of self-awareness, quiet joy, and a reminder to slow down when needed. Here’s to carrying these lessons with me into November.